I have a question to pose to you ladies. If a guy is dating a young lady seriously or say has a girlfriend, is he still available? We don't make a pledge to God when we make a guy our boyfriend, but we do when he becomes our husband. So is he open for the taking?

I know this question may seem wrong, but I'm just curious to see what women think.

I think the answer to this question depends on how you define what is off limits. Is anyone ever completely off limits? Even married men are pursued by women all the time. People have a lack of respect for the relationships of others when they themselves don't have many successful ones of their own. Any woman who has ever had her boyfriend or husband pursued by another woman knows how this lack of respect feels. I really think people need to pursue men who are completely available. I know everyone does not believe in karma, but I feel the energy people display toward others comes back to them. Give out good, get good and vice versa. It is important for us as women especially to be examples to our younger counterparts by making wise decisions, and respecting the relationships of others. This world is toxic enough~