Of course we all want a great man but ok sex may not make him a great man to you anymore. A great man has certain qualities that make him great and y can't one of the qualities be great sex.

Sex does play an important role, I don't want a guy who doesn't know what to do or can't satisfy me and trust me I've dealt with guys like that and at the end of the day it is annoying. I don't want to give random directions to a grown man. Talk dirty, pull my hair blah blah, I don't want to deal with that ish cause at the end of the day he still won't do it right and a guy doesn't want to feel bad in bed. So you start faking it so he doesn't feel bad or inadequate and now you have a whole 'nother mess on your hands.

However, I don't want to be with a dickhead for his dick. So I'm at a crossroads with what I would want. Just being honest .

Umm to answer your question pimpette33 I think i have a different point of view when it comes to me...i've had great sex with someone whom i didn't really care for was i interested in another sexapade with that person...nope

why would I when we don't have a deeper connection sexual...sex only last a short period of time its not something that stays with me. Good sex with someone whom i share a deep connection with is priceless and stays with me and satisfies me way more, not only sexually but also mentally.

I agree @ pimpette...it is certainly something to be considered. Perhaps one would be more apt to cheat. But here's where I go all willy nilly! Is cheating for purely physical reasons THAT BAD?
*looks around for the slaying to begin*
I'm just saying, if you have a great man, supportive in every other way but dosen't blow your mind during sex, isn't it not altogether horrible to cheat JUST for physical reasons?

<< I'm just asking!