A small part of who you are reflects on the type of men that you attract.  Do you see similarities in the men that you’re attracting?  Are you tired of the same ole song and dance…he’s dreaming big dreams but never does anything to make them come true.  He’s perfectly content wallowing in his mediocrity?  What about you? How do you measure up?

We just can’t expect the men to bring a good career, stable finances and good credit to the table. We need to bring that much plus more as well instead of focusing on snagging him and planning our lives as his wife.  Times have changed and so have men. Today most men look for more progression in a woman; someone who they can build with, not completely provide for.  Any man that’s truly sincere would want to admire his woman’s accomplishments; good men want a partner.  This dynamic takes a lot of pressure off the two of you and frees up emotional space for a more stress free and effortless romance.

I once heard a fitness trainer say that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. If you’re still approaching relationships the same way, and expecting to meet a different kind of guy; stop spinning your wheels.  Save your energy and step up your game. This holds true for life as well. If you want your life to be different across the board, you’re going to have to make some changes. When I say step up your game, it isn’t all for the sake of finding a better man. You’ll find that when you’re feeling a sense of accomplishment, your self esteem rises; a whole array of blessings come your way and men follow, as a matter of fact, they’ll flock to you.  Men love a woman with a confident swagger.

Think about making conscious changes and turning yourself into the female version of the kind of man you would like to meet. It might sound kind of weird, but once you try it you’ll see that it makes perfect sense. Here are some ways that can start you off:

• Change your social settings and be open to going places that you’ve never been before.
• Continue your education.
• Surround yourself with like minded people.
• Makeover your financial portfolio and take serious steps towards financial freedom.
• Improve relations with friends and family.
• Promote a more positive self image by improving eating habits, exercising and making time to pamper yourself.
• Tap into your creativity. You never know, it can turn into a new side hustle.

It’s human nature to want to improve and upgrade yourself and once you’ve stepped up your game…you will see different results in the type of men you attract into your life.

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