Shopping
is fun. It is always fun to buy new things, especially if
they are bought with cash truly allotted for the purpose
of shopping, rather than with a credit card. Shopping for
new stuff is rewarding yourself for working so hard and going
through all that stress just to get your job well done.
Popular
belief has it that shopping is the province of women. Well, I
am more than certain that men find shopping enjoyable too, but
if they feel the need to peg this activity as a women-only activity
(with the exemption of the fabulous metrosexuals out there),
then by all means peg away. We do not mind.
But
even when we are spending money that is truly ours for the spending,
we should still bear in mind that we still need to shop wisely.
Not only is wanton shopping a waste of time and money, but every
item we buy that we have no need nor use for will only end up as
clutter in our closets. Clutter is something we do not exactly
want to have in our living space.
Whether
one is going out to shop for necessities or purely for the pleasure
of it, a wise shopper never goes out to make her purchases without
a plan. So, plan ahead and think of the things that you would like
to buy. A new pair of shoes perhaps, or a new black dress to replace
your staple little black number in your closet. Make a list of
what you want to buy, be it a mental list or a written list, and
arm yourself with it. It will prevent you from making any outrageous
impulse purchases that you will regret later.
If
you are going to shop for clothes, buy only those that fit you
right now. Sure it is tempting to grab that dress that you like
but is actually two or three sizes too small for you, thinking
that in six months or so, you would be able to fit in it. Never
give in to that temptation. It is more likely that you will never
be able to wear that dress at all.
Speaking
of clothes, try not to be a fashion victim. Do not follow fashion
trends closely - fashion too is fickle, and what is hot right now
may not be hot tomorrow. Instead, develop your own signature style,
the style that speaks of your personality, the style that you would
continue wearing through the years. Having a few key items in your
wardrobe that are high in quality, can be mixed and matched easily,
and speaks loudly about your style is much, much better than having
a closet full of junk that you will only wear once or twice, then
never again.
That
being said, there are five essential items that you should have
in your closet. Have these five items and you will never go wrong,
or say that you do not have anything to wear. These five things
are:
1. A good push-up bra. Wearing nice
underwear does a lot of great things for your body and boosts your
confidence, especially on hot dates.
2. An all-around top. This top
should be something you can wear for whatever day or occasion,
especially when you feel stuck in a fashion rut.
3. A great pair of jeans. A good
pair of jeans can be worn anywhere, whether for going to the
mall, a walk in the park, a casual date, a party, or even to
work. It should be comfortable and it should fit you nicely.
4. Pumps.
Just like with great jeans and the all-around top, a pair of
pumps can be worn anywhere, anytime.
5. The little black dress. Have
one of these little black dresses, and you will never go wrong.
The little black dress is flexible enough to be worn on any occasion,
its degree of formality dependent on the accessories and the
shoes you wear with it. The little black dress is especially
handy if you do not like thinking too much of what to wear for
that particular day.
Remember:
shop wisely, and a little goes a long way. |