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After reading this article, I can say one thing: this sounds as if written by a male. How can you ask us if size really matters? Males can feel the difference in when a woman is loose (meaning, she’s been with a number of males), so what makes you think we can’t feel the difference in how big you all are? We need length because the way our bodies are made, and no, they are not the same as yours, we need certain spots to be hit. Why do you think we scream? Der, you’ve hit that spot for us! A man with a small package can’t do that for us. This is not to say that he can’t please us sexually period. It’s just to say, that from time to time, we need that spot hit. If his length is not there, then we are dissatisfied. We need width because if you’re the best at it, we’d like to curve to you. I thought men discussed that. Well, they did in that movie with Taye Diggs and Morris Chesnutt. We have to have both. There’s no sense in being with a man who can’t fill you up completely, in and around. Now, to get other pleasure from sex, any man who works at it can accomplish this. However, not all women want or even enjoy oral sex. Yes, you can make us have an orgasm from it, but if that’s all you can do sexually, then it’s ‘on to the next one’ like ya boy Jay-Z said. There’s nothing wrong with having stipulations on what we want in someone sexually. Now, do not misunderstand me. I watched the same show as you. I will agree, some of Chili’s requirements were a bit ridiculous. She started listing them, I got up and went to the bathroom, came back and she was still listing them. That’s too much! But, pretty much all she said was that she wanted a man with a big package when it comes to sex. She didn’t say that he had to eat it night and day, strip for her in the bedroom, make love to her 4 times a day, etc. She wants the outside and the inside fulfilled. That’s not to say something is wrong with her for wanting. I will agree that we as Black women can’t have these requirements of Black men. I say this strictly because there are not that many Black men to go around in the first place, who don’t have kids, don’t have bad credit, don’t have a record, don’t strictly date outside of their race, don’t have a disease, don’t degrade women, aren’t already married, aren’t old, aren’t gay, aren’t abusive, aren’t in jail, and/or aren’t dead. When we put all of these ‘must-haves’ on someone, we limit ourselves. I think a simple list of attractiveness, employment, basic items met (car, house, benefits, etc), few to no kids, and a good sex game is not too much to ask for; if he doesn’t cheat, smoke, drink, isn’t abusive, etc, that’s all the better. I’m not saying settle, but do limit or tone down what isn’t a must-have!

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