My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years.  We have the most perfect relationship and he is the most romantic guy I have ever been with.  I started to feel him slipping away from me a few months ago but about two weeks ago everything has been getting back to normal.  I recently found out  from the "side chick" that he was cheating on me during those distant months.  He doesn't know that I know yet and I'm not sure how to tell him. It sounds like the only reason she told me was because he recently broke it off with her.  Should I confront my guy and ruin this great relationship even though he's already broken it off? Or should I forget about it and forgive him and wait until I see any signs again?

- In love, but scared, 26. Cleveland, Ohio.

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I do think you should confront him.  Its obvious that the reationship isn't as great as you thought it was because he wouldn't have been cheating on you throughout those months.  To try to to avoid the problem and act like it never happened would just postpone the inevitable, which is him cheating on you again.  You have to confront him and find out what went wrong during those months and what issues need to be addressed.  If not, you'll just be setting yourself up for it to happen again.  Maybe the porblem is something that can be resolved, so he doesn't feel he has to go out and cheat on you.  You dont want this to become a reoccurring problem if you see him being that special person in your life.  What puzzles me is the fact that you were able to hold this inside and remain calm while finding this out.  No matter how great you may think the relationship is, you have to know your worth and  be confident enough to know that you can find soemone out there that will appreciate and love you just the same without cheating on you. - Hollywood

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