" I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and he's never introduced me to his friends. I've met his mom and other members of his family but none of his friends. Does he really care about me or Is he ashamed of me? "

- Dionne 24, Brooklyn, NY

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If you've been dating a man for nearly a year and met his family, but none his friends I really wouldn't sweat it.  Think about it, a man's family naturally takes higher precedence over his friends...and even though he chills, wild's out, or even converses with his boys about various things...the opinions of his loved ones more than likely comes first.  The fact the he's even brought you around his mother is definitely a good sign; and not that he views you as some everyday quick chick. 

You would figure that friends and family meetings go hand in hand...but on the flipside maybe he doesn't wan't you to meet his friends because of who they are.  You know how that old saying goes, you can judge an individual by the company they keep.  1- They could be snake type dudes, that realize how fly you are and might try to slide some words in your ear away from your man to get with you...but you being a virtuous woman would never get down like that.  2- Possibly, because he knows them and their history, not passing judgement, but if they go way back and some of his friends might have criminal backgrounds or are non-progressive individuals...he may not want to bring you around in fear that you might view him differently; and he definitely does not want to lose you. 

All in all, what's important is that this man wants to share the joy you bring him with the people that care and love him the most...family always comes first.  But any good relationship is built on trust, communication, and harmony...so you should feel comfortable and free to discuss this and/or anything else with your mate. - Rob

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