My boyfriend likes
to club a lot. At first I didn’t have a problem with it because
we met at a popular night club in NYC. It’s just going too
far now. We have been together four months and his at the club
religiously every weekend. How do I keep him home? Better yet,
why doesn’t he want to stay home?
-Nicole,
21, Bronx NY
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I
think first u need 2 let him know that's its affecting the relationship. If
he doesn't have an idea about it not being ok with you he will just
continue to do it. He may just like the club scene or being
out. If that's the case, go out with him and maybe you
will have a great time also. You can't really blame
him for going out since that's how you met each other. Depending
on his response to you two going out together you willbe able to
tell if this is really a problem or if its just a guy that likes
to go out.
He
doesn't necessarily have to be going out to meet other women, or
because he is doesn't like spending time with you, it could
be simply that he wants to have a good time with his friends.
You should also go out and hang out with your friends to keep yourself
busy and not worry about what he does so much. But, first talk
to him, tell him how you feel and take it from there.
- Hollywood
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