Empress: Love. Power. Respect

"I met a man a week ago at a club. He approached me and proceeded to tell me how attractive I was and how nice I seemed. We exchanged numbers and text messaged each other for a week straight. When I asked what were his weekend plans, his exact response was “spending time with you.” He also tells me he didn’t care what we did
or where we went just as long as it allowed him the chance to get to know me better. We decide to meet in the downtown area on a Saturday night (his idea). When I text him to confirm an exact time and location, I didn’t get a response and haven’t heard from him since. I’ve called from my number and text him and no answer. However when I called from a different number, he answered. Why did he feel the need to pursue me and initiate everything if he was going to bail at the end?

" I think its one of two things. Something either happened that he doesn't want you to know about or he just got your number and threw it with the rest, just to say he got it. A lot of guys do that from time to time. For instance, if a guy is in a club and he doesn't see anyone worth talking to, he'll talk to a girl and get her number just because he's bored. Its just like when a girl is in the club and she isn't getting any action, she'll take a guys number just because there isn't anything else going on around her at the time. He probably wasn't feeling you in that way but it was something to do. What a lot of people don't understand is that good conversation or just meeting someone new can be a good thing and it doesn't end with giving or getting a phone number. If he did this to you he probably wasn't someone that you would want to talk to anyway. I say forget about him".

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