I've been dating someone for four months and have been unhappy for the last 2. I really do like him but he is stuck in his ways and I don't think there is any changing him. So recently I told him we should stop having sex and work more on being friends. When I said stop having sex, I didn't mean forever, there is no real time limit. Just whenever it is right to start doing it again.

The conversation went pretty well. We had a long discussion about the type of relationship we have and what we like and dislike about each other. He said he didn't think it made sense but he wasn't going to force me to change my mind.

Now, do you think that my 'no sex for a while rule' is realistic? Do you think I just added more stress on our relationship? I am confident in what I did I just wanted your opinion.

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I think you made a wise decision.  I don't think its going to put any added stress on the relationship at all.  If anything, its going to test the friendship that you guys have. He could be thinking that your proposal won't last long and he'll stick it out or he may really enjoy just being with you. The suggestion you made about you guys not having sex may not even mean anything to him.  Only time will tell if he's really "in it to win it or if he's in it to hit it" as Hollywood would say. 

Until next time, Hollywood!    

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