My boyfriend came out of a relationship of 7 years (first love), dated a few females and then we got together 3 months later.  We have been dating for 5 months. He has a web page that still has pictures of his first love, the majority of them are, and he also has some of me. Recently the first love and I got into it, and she made a comment that he still loves her, that is why the pictures are still up.  He says the total opposite, he no longer feels that way towards her, saying he was too busy and will delete them, but now he will.   Now it has been a couple days and he still hasn’t deleted them.  I didn’t say anything before, because I wanted him to delete them because he loves,me like he says, not because I told him.  Should I say something now?

-Too good to be true? 24, Charlotte, NC

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Well to be honest with you, he probably stilll does have feelings for her.  The fact that its taking him so long to do something that will take 5 minutes and will mean so much to you explains that there is something making him want to keep them up there.  Whether it be the feelings he has for her or her asking him to keep themup there, its disrespectful to you.  It would be a diffeent issue if they broke up and they are just remaining friends and the pictures were still up, but the last straw should have been when you and the other girl got into it.  The pictures should immediately come down from then.  Since they didn't, you better believe that he's either still seeing her, still feeling her or still f*%#ing her.  If your ok with that then fine but if not, it's time to speak up. Signing Off, HOLLYWOOD

 

 

 

 

 

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