Empress: Love. Power. Respect

" I've been dating this guy for 4 months, we're not officially a couple but we both really care about each other, (atleast that is what I thought). Now his behavior is beginning to confuse me. He has stop speaking to me sporadically, for the last two months he's been calling me every other week and I don't know why. It's like when he wants to talk, we talk and when he wants to see me it has to be on his time. I really like him and I don't know what the hell is going on. I know he likes me but why does he behave like this?

Unfortunately, guys like him are the type to deal with many females. When they get tired of a particular girl their dealing with, they feel the need to spice up their appetite by giving more attention to another female until they get tired of her too. Most likely when he is through with them he'll come running back to you.

Think of it like candy, when you have one flavor for so long you want to try another, but then you remember why you liked that flavor and you can't help but go back. It may sound selfish but the truth is is he doesn't have to call you all the time just because he likes you. So my advice is, the next time he calls you after two weeks tell him your busy and that you'll call him back when you get the chance.